June 9, 2024
From time to
time, I have heard people criticize Jesus’ actions in the Gospel you heard this
morning.
Some of the time
they say he is disrespecting his family by not recognizing their presence.
Other times they
say “no one can be a brother or sister without sharing DNA.”
Let me tell you a little about
myself.
I am an only
child. My father was 40 and my mother was 37. I might have had bothers or
sisters had my father not served in World War II until 18 months before I was
born.
Another thing—I
was born into the Pilgrim Holiness Church. We left when I was 5 and became
Methodists. Let me assure you that “mountain Methodists” in Southern West
Virginia made Methodists in New England seem like high church Anglicans!
Everyone in both
those churches were called ‘bother’ or ‘sister’. I was ‘brother Jimmy’ until I
went to college and found the Episcopal Church. My introduction was in a ‘house
church’—no building to call it’s own.
In fact, the
‘house church’ was the attic above our apartment in Morgantown after Bern and I
were married after I received a Master’s degree from Harvard Divinity School.
We moved back there so Bern could finish her degree and I could be a social
worker in child protection.
The first time I
was in a brick and mortar church was to be received into the Episcopal Church.
But I assure you
of this—the other members of that ‘house church’ WERE my brothers and sisters.
It was them that convinced me to go back to seminary and be ordained. And lots
of them attended my ordination.
So, I fully
understand what Jesus meant when he called the people in the room were his
brothers and sisters and mother.
The only member
of the house church who was over 30 was a woman in her 80’s who was the first
to tell me “go back to seminary, Jim. I mean it!”
The people in
all the churches I have served have been my brothers and sisters.
And now it’s
your turn.
Thank you from
the bottom of heart, my brothers and sisters in Christ.
For an only
child, I’ve had a lot of siblings….
Thank you and
Shalom.