Bern and I were talking earlier about getting older. She told me that turning 30, for her, was an opportunity to leave behind some things she no longer had to think about. "I knew I'd never be a model for 17 magazine," she said. "Took pressure off. One less thing to worry about. That's the way we should be now."
How right she is.
I wrote about Bela, our 12 year old Puli getting older. Well, so are we.
Our daughter, Mimi, told Bern a while back, knowing we have always had a dog--"when Bela dies, you and Dad should get an older dog...."
We probably will--though I dread the day Bela dies. I've thought, more than once, that it might be better for Bern if I died before Bela. Our house is paid off. She'll get part of my pension and SS. She'll be fine. And Bela could comfort her more about 'the man' (which is what I am to Bela) than I'll be able to when he dies.
I've backed off that. I want to outlive Bela and get a 7 year old rescue dog after an appropriate mourning.
But I am getting older.
That whole conversation about turning 30 was spurred by my telling Bern I can't jump anymore. With my repaired knee and the other knee that pops audibly whenever I stand up, I just don't think I can--or should--jump.
She told me then about her turning 30 and also told me 'jumping is over-rated'.
Granted, it is. But I used to be a pretty good basketball player and loved to shoot jump shots.
Playing basketball, she told me, is also over-rated.
I'm going to ponder 'the opportunity to leave things behind' as opposed to regretting I can't do things I used to do.
That may be the thing to do as I move toward 80 in a decade.
Yea, I think that's a plan....
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- memory (and reality) not all it's cracked up to be...
- photos--black and white
- Saturday Baptism revisited
- Saturday Baptism
- Happy Father's Day (to me)
- So I play on-line games
- Brooklyn and back
- going to Brooklyn
- ok, F--- Facebook!
- Faith as a possibility....
- me too...
- He's getting old
- Dear Lord, help me be calm....
- How Great Is This?
- 2017--that's it....
- Bern's owls
- Letter to my granddaughters
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