I had a conversation tonight with Bern about two things.
The easiest first.
I asked her if someone could be a feminist AND anti-abortion.
She not only believed someone could. She believes someone can be both anti-abortion and pro-choice at the same time.
Well, that I buy. I'm one of those. I hate abortion, every one of them. I hate anything that stops someone who is conceived from being born into this confusing, hateful but totally amazing world. Never being able to love a dog. Never feeling the sun. Never hearing the sleet against the window--never mind every thing else--I hate that fetuses die.
AND, in capital letters, I support without reservation a woman's right to choose an abortion. I'm not a woman and was never faced with ending a pregnancy. So, I have no cards in the game to begin with. A woman has a right to decide what happens to her body. Period. Full Stop.
But many feminists don't believe holding those two things--hating abortion and believing in 'choice' is possible. I'm glad Bern does.
The other thing we talked about is harder.
Bern believes Trump 'denies' the 'truth'.
I wish that were true, as scary as it is in a President.
What I think is scarier. I think Trump truly thinks that what he thinks is the 'truth'.
I believe he truly thinks more people were at his inauguration and viewed it that any other--even though factually that isn't true.
I believe our President isn't just being testy when confronted with 'facts he doesn't like'. I believe he believes his 'alternative facts' are TRUE.
What does the Bible say? You can 'believe' a 'lie' and be damned????
I think that's what it says.
I hope Bern is right about both things--that 'pro-life' folks can be 'pro-choice' and deal with that ambiguity.
And I hope she's right that Trump simply 'denies the truth' instead of what I think, which is he believes his opinion is always TRUE.
We'll see on both, down the road a bit....
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