Why would I expect the lame-duck president to act 'presidential'?
Has he ever?
Why would I expect him to concede defeat and give congratulations to Joe and Kamala? (Be the way, my spell check doesn't recognize the Vice President elect's name yet!!!)
Why would I expect him to co-operate in the transition, which his people are resisting letting the new administration join them to prepare for a new administration?
Why would I expect the president and the president elect to sit in the oval office for a conversation?
Why would I expect him to act in the same way as most every president in history has acted?
Why would I expect anything different than all that has happened in the last 4 years?
Just wishful thinking, I guess....